This could have been a lot worst and I understand your new look on life. It sucks it took a near death experience to open ones eyes, count your blessings because this is one of them. Glad you are safe and okay. Good words near the end, don't be the person others want you to be but be who you choose to be. Btw Dead Pool was awesome.
LexRodent
Holy 5#!T Man !
By the looks of your car "remains" looks like it could have been a lot worse. (Not saying it was a walk in the park) Nice you got something good out of all that. We humans are "easily distracted" creatures, and sometimes we lose things we like, while looking for others that seem important, but are not quite. Grab what you love and don't let it escape your sight.
AcidX
For sure. I was lucky my car spun out the way it did, when it did. Had we crashed head-on, or I been spinning the other way... I certainly wouldn't be writing this. Have definitely been distracted and not doing things for myself. Always trying to please others was my biggest wrong and ultimately my undoing. Times change, things change...but I ain't never giving this up! These things only make us stronger.